Setting Your Loved Ones Free

If we want people to change, the best thing we can do is release them from the images we hold of them, set your loved ones free to evolve…

Recently in a healing session, I became aware of pain and anger I was holding with my mother, and it had been causing discomfort in my left shoulder and neck for a long time.

As I allowed the love and compassion to flow into my body and my heart, I saw how I had been holding my mother in a painful image from our past. In my memory, she was still this person from 45 years ago with all her same flaws.

Though she passed away 35 years ago, when I thought of her, I was still projecting this image onto her, energetically placing her into the old box.

When I released her from this box, it was as if her spirit was released to be with her Source and further evolve her soul.

At the same time, the pain from my neck and shoulder released, and the whole left side of my body began to physically realign.

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When we hold grudges against the people we love – mother, father, brother, sister, spouse – we are holding ourselves in a pattern of discontent, but we’re also holding them in a box. We’re holding them in an image of the person they were when they did whatever they did that hurt us or made us angry.

The best thing we can do is to release them from that box, give them space to evolve and grow into the people we want them to be and always wished they would be.

Everyone deserves a chance to evolve and grow. And for better or worse, we are here to do that together.

Everyone deserves a chance to evolve and grow. And for better or worse, we are here to do that together. Share on X

Because it’s never been about them, and it’s never been about you. My teacher used to say, what happens for you in this life is not about you. It is for you, it is from you, but it is not about you.

We are all here to learn and grow and evolve together for the evolution of the soul.

In this episode, we call on the Divine Name:

- An-Nur: The Pure Divine Light
- Al-Wadud: The Unconditional Love
- Ar-Rahman: The Eternal Compassion
- At-Tawwab: The Remorse that Returns Us to Our Core Light
- Al-‘Afuw: The Forgiveness that Heals all Wounds

Listen to this episode for a transformational healing to release others so they are free to heal. We also release ourselves from the person we were when we got hurt. You can set your loved ones free, and yourself too.

Have a beautiful blessed week! Did you receive insights or guidance or healing for yourself, your family, your community or our planet?
If so, please share in our Community for Conscious Living facebook group. We are all here to walk together and learn from each other.

I’ll see you next week for an all-new episode of the Community for Conscious Living Meditation & Healing Circle and Self-Care for the Soul podcast.

You’re welcome to join us live on Sundays. As always, bring your prayers for personal struggles, challenges of and with those you care about, for peace, for fulfillment, and for the health and sustainability of our planet. If you’d like to join us live, there is time for Q&A and sharing at the end of the call – off the recording.

Bring whatever is on your heart. Come as you are, receive, heal and grow. Please invite your friends to join us, too.

See you there!
Debra