On Divorce: Healing, Guidance, Self-Compassion

Today’s Meditation & Healing Circle focuses on Divorce – love, attachment, commitment, obligation. How do we know when to stay or go? How can we find healing and wholeness in the midst of the turmoil? How can we come to know love even when we feel like we’re losing it?

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Today’s meditation offers you compassion and illuminated insight. This is the next question in the series, The Answer is Love: Questions to Explore as We Transition into an Era of Peace. The question is: “What about divorce?”

Care for your heart with gentleness, tenderness, and acceptance. A tender time is a perfect time to know a deeper love. Share on X

NOTE: The following is from an energetic download that came through in a writing retreat. It is shared “as is” with no edits. I do not make claims to speak for God or any other spiritual entity. However, I do recognize that this information is important to share as our planet is evolving. This question and response are part of the upcoming book, The Answer is Love: Questions to Explore as We Transition into an Era of Peace.

What about divorce?

Care about yourself, your heart, your significant other, and your children. Your life journey is full of ebbs and flows. Sometimes the ebbs are so drastic that they separate you from the current flow and your life is ready to enter a new flow. How do you know when this time has come? That is part of your journey to seek love.

Do not allow yourself to stay in a situation that brings you harm. You do not deserve to be mistreated. No one does. Respect yourself. If your significant other does not or cannot respect you, you are well within your rights to leave. Abusive relationships have no place in the new era of love. Abuse to a spouse or the children – no place.

If there is no harm but the love has died down, the spark burnt out, can you rekindle? What brought you together in the first place? Can that still attract you or hold you together? Has only one changed or both? Is there something new that can hold you together or is the attraction or common grounds completely washed away?

Sometimes the pathway is to stay together. Sometimes it is to divorce. Which is more loving for your heart and for the children? This is an opportunity for deep soul searching and heart searching. What is more loving? What is more merciful? Choose that.

Let go of old pictures and beliefs about what you should do. Follow the love. Love is the answer, the truth. And it is within your own heart. Sometimes finding the love within yourself and being strengthened by that connection to your own love and truth will attract your mate back to you. It is not necessarily the reason to connect with inner strength and unconditional love. Do this anyway. What follows will follow as a result, not the reason for doing.
Seek your truth, center, ground, stand in certainty and confidence. It will help your decision in any case. Clear sincere communications, actions, and follow through will help as well.

And know that your marriage has created many attachments between you and your spouse. Detaching those cords is a painful process even when it is the right or best option. Care for your heart with gentleness, tenderness, and acceptance. Also care for the hearts of your children and your partner. A tender time is a perfect time to know a deeper love. Know love. Be love. I am still here no matter what- unconditionally.

We call on Sound Codes from the Divine Name:

al-Ghafur: Forgiveness on the Soul Level that integrates life lessons and soul teachings.

May you experience the eyes of God seeing through you to witness the expression of God that appears before you through every aspect of existence.

You’re invited and welcomed to join us live next week – we address the final question within Section 2: Gender Identity, Gender Roles, Family, Parenting, & Children. The question is: “How can I have a healthy sex life that honors the sacredness of my body and spirit?”

See you there!
Debra

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I hope this has been helpful for you today. In the future, if you’d like to join us live, there is time for Q&A and sharing at the end of the call – off the recording.

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